Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Virtual Romance through Computer Mediated Communication

This week's entry is going to be quite interesting and thought provoking for two reasons. The first reason is that this is my last entry for the communication blog and second is that it is based on the thing that we all are dependent on or can't live without these days; the Internet(New Media).The popularity of Internet communication or Computer Mediated Communication has dramatically gained popularity over the years. People use the internet for various reasons like playing online games, create blogs(which I have been doing for the past 2 months), download music and to date online. It has made our lives so convenient and easy ,as everything is just a click away. In fact I am a complete internet addict and stay online for atleast four hours a day! But as a coin has two sides, the use of internet also has its disadvantages.




While surfing the net this week, I stumbled upon an aritcle which amazed and amused me at the same time. It was a case based on the dangers of online dating after a woman in Hamilton filed a case against a 41 year old man for sexually harrassing her. They were dating online since November and had decided to meet up on Friday night. However, things took a drastic turn when the man went to the woman's house and she fell prey into his hands.Click on the link for more details.



Although Computer Mediated Communication has revolutionised a person's lifestyle, yet one aspect of it cannot be easily dismissed ie Anonymity. As there is less information about communicators online, it is easier to fake your identity which results in a lowered sense of accountability. The above story is a case of online deception as the woman was disillusioned when she met her so called 'Dream Man'. But online dating has been gaining popularity as people are more comfortable in virtual relationships nowadays. Here is a quote from Sherry Turkle.


“In cyberspace, we can talk, exchange ideas, and
assume personae of our own creation. We have
the opportunity to build new kinds of
communities, virtual communities, in which we
participate with people from all over the world,
people with whom we converse daily, people
with whom we have fairly intimate relationships,
but whom we may have never met.”

(Sherry Turkle, New Windows on the Self)




Patricia Wallace points out that Internet communication are an inexpensive way to create an impression, polish one's personal persona and tell the world something about oneself and their interests(Thinking Through communication -Sarah Trenholm). Hence, it gives a boost to people's confidence when they find someone appreciating them and their work in the virtual world rather than facing criticism for their shortcomings in the real world.

However there have been quite a number of successful marraige cases with the help of online dating or matrimonial sites. Here are two stories illustrating the statement:


1) Bride-Dipanwita Batabyal
Groom -Reetobrata Mookherjee
Marriage Date 16/01/09
We met each other through Bengalimatrimony and instantly felt the connectio, and decided to tie the knot. Our heartfelt thanks to Bharatmatrimony for great service.


2) Bride Vidya Subramanian
Groom Vinod Radhakrishnan
Marriage Date Yet to be fixed
I posted my son's profile on bharatmatrimony website in Aug 2008 and we were overwhelmed by the response we got. Within a short time he could find his match and they are getting engaged next month in the US. The bride was also registered on your website and my wife & self are grateful for their assistance.

After going through all the articles, I personally feel that face to face communication is a lot better and accountable than computer mediated communication. I would prefer to date someone I personally know and met ,rather than dating online. But I admit that sometimes I am more comfortable sharing messages online.So the question or questions of the week. a)Do you believe in virtual relationships or would indulge in one? b)Are you more comfortable communicating online or in the real world? What do you think about the above instances? Do let me know your views.


Sunday, March 1, 2009

Oscar showers for Slumdog Millionaire - Overhyped or Deserved?

Slumdog Millionaire has indeed been one of the most talked about movies this year. Since the day of its release, it has been in the news for some or the other reason ; surrounded by controversies. But this doesn’t seem to affect the Slumdog team as they are on cloud nine, for history was created on 22nd February 2009 when the film bagged 8 ACADEMY AWARDS!!!!!!!!!!Take a look at the stars celebrating their success.



From left: Dev patel, Anil Kapoor and Imraan Hasnee


The film gloriously swept away eight awards out of the ten categories it was nominated in. They are:
1. Best Picture: Producer Christian Colson.
2. Best Direction: Danny Boyle
3. Best Original Song: A R Rahman and Gulzar for ‘Jai Ho...’
4. Best Original Score: A R Rahman
5. Best Film Editing: Chris Dickens
6. Best Sound Mixing: Ian Tapp, Resul Pookutty and Richard Pryke
7. Best Cinematography: Anthony Dod Mantle
8. Best Adapted Screenplay: Simon Beaufoy


Music Composer A.R Rahman

At the Oscars.


Even though the film has celebrated internationally, it has faced criticism in India. Many people felt that the movie was indirectly selling poverty. Bollywood Actress Jaya Bachan was quoted by Times of India Newspaper

“It was a British movie and not Indian, implying that the euphoria over the film's success was misplaced

Previously also the film was slammed by Bollywood Legend Amitabh Bachan. In his blog he had posted the following comment.

If 'Slumdog Millionaire' projects India as Third World dirty underbelly developing nation and causes pain and disgust among nationalists and patriots, let it be known that a murky underbelly exists and thrives even in the most developed nations, Its just that the 'Slumdog Millioanire' idea authored by an Indian and conceived and cinematically put together by a westerner, gets creative global recognition


Even Director Priyadarshan shared similar views. In an interview with a news reporter , he said;
“Slumdog Millionaire is nothing but a cheap trashy mediocre version of those commercial films about estranged brothers and childhood sweethearts that Salim-Javed used to write so brilliantly in the 1970s. And please quote me clearly on this. If the Golden Globe and Oscars committees have chosen to honour this trashy film it just shows their ignorance of world cinema, I saw the film with a mixed audience at the Toronto Film Festival. The Westerners loved it. All the Indian hated it. The West loves to see us as a wasteland, filled with horror stories of exploitation and degradation. But is that all there’s to our beautiful city of Mumbai?”



Top: Slumdog team, Bottom: A.R. Rahman.


However it was appreciated by many eminent personalities. President Obama is keen to watch the movie as said by Whitehouse Spokes person , Robert Gibbs. In addition,British Prime Minister Gordon Brown congratulated the cast and crew of the movie and said, “I was lucky enough to see the film myself and understand how it has captured the imagination of people all over the world. Its success is truly well-deserved.” Back in India, the slums in Mumbai too celebrated the film’s success.




People celebrating Slumdog’s success.


So now I come to the concepts learned in class this week. Media plays a vital role in communicating information to the masses. This is known as Mass Communication where communication occurs when institutional sources address large, diverse audiences whose members are physically separated from one another.(Thinking Through communication- Sarah Trenholm).


According to Moderate Effects theory Media effects audiences in many ways; as a result, influencing and moulding their opinions. One of them is AGENDA SETTING where the media consistently raises an issues to make the media consumers aware and conscious about them. Through this movie; the magazines, news channels and newspapers have consistently raised questions about the poverty situation in India despite our economy growth. Whether it was exaggerated in the movie or not ,was discussed by many critics. They even raised questions on the film winning the Oscars; did it deserve it or was it overhyped? The next theory is SPIRAL OF SILENCE and MEDIA HEGEMONY where the media highlights some issues and reproduces only those ideas which uphold the interests of the power elite or famous personalities. In this context, views of eminent personalities like the Bollywood celebrities and Political leaders were highlighted but the powerless groups were kept away from making their ideas known.


The receivers also resist media messages in certain ways. Due to SELECTIVE PERCEPTION, the receivers assign meaning to messages in selective ways. Due to this, the movie was interpreted differently by different people as some were affected by their preconceived notions and by the intention of the media. Here are some contrasting views of people on the movie.


1. Blogger Juan Cole finds fault in the film’s focus, not on poverty, but on the crime in Mumbai slums.
2. Blogger “Lekhni” believes this criticism stems from the discomfort that middle-class Indians feel towards “the other” India.
3. A blogger of “Voice from a 2.5 World Country“ disagrees, arguing that poverty remains the enduring, but increasingly inaccurate, image of India:


Again, the users use different media texts like magazines, televisions. Radios etc for gratification. If the nature of the news is obtrusive( relevant to the user, direct experience) then it will have limited effect on the receiver and if it is unobtrusive, it will have a greater effect on the media consumer. With reference to Slumdog Millionaire winning the Oscar, it didn’t have a big effect in some parts of India and Britain as the people were familiar with the developments. On the other hand, it had a huge impact on the other parts of the world and was appreciated by most of the westerners.

I personally loved the movie and think that it deserved every bit of the success. I was elated and thrilled to know that it won 8 Oscars. Do let me know whether you think Slumdog Millionaire deserved all the success and glory or was it simply overhyped? I know your views might differ.